In no particular order, here are 7 exciting things to remember to do BEFORE falling into the blissful net of Marriage:
1. Take a trip;
While serving or while in the university, we have those friends that we can easily rely on for an ALL GIRLS trip across country and be sure it will be a memorable time away. Travelling is a certified way to ease up on stress and further meet people and network. Take lots of pictures (including blackmail pictures) which will serve as long term memories of the trip.
2. Date outside your comfort zone;
Yes, I agree that sounds a little off but it’s a tried and tested medium of ‘testing the waters’- don’t just know the saying, experience it. We all have our own 'specs' but then, people who are not our spec are also special people and they carry special experiences too – you might just end up switching your spec. Remember, a date is just a date until you consciously decide to do something about its aftermath. Also, dating someone from a different culture, religion and background can be a little tricky but again, its an experience because you tend to learn their style and understand some of their ideologies first hand – always a poker.
3. Try living ALONE;
This is one part of Single life I have always yearned for…..expensive but thrilling! Many girls and even guys alike at an early stage want to quickly escape the net of their parent and live on their own and we don’t blame you. Living alone, even if it’s only for a few months gives you an avenue to further learn about yourself and what it really means to be independent – spending decisions, housekeeping, test out recipes, re-decorations, responsibility and all sorts.
4. Find your passion;
Finding your passion is difficult on its own and then developing such is a whole new ballgame. While some of us already knew what we wanted to they were babies, some of us remain clueless EVEN after University (believe me). So then, while being single (and loving it ), finding your passion is a another important path to focus on – no man wants to settle down with a confused and unfocused woman, no matter how much he says he loves you, he’ll even love a clever woman better.
5. One night stand;
As adventurous as that may sound – it is not very safe! We know you are young, happy and free but are you also immune to viral infections? Moreover back then, people used to have one night stands with the mindsets that they would not meet again but hey, this is 2013…..you will inevitably be discovered whether via instagram, facebook, keek or the many many lot! It is however ok to hang out, flirt, kiss (if you are THAT daring) but when the issue of sex comes up, ask the basic questions , ‘are you married’, ‘have you been to prison’, ‘are you into men’..Its 2014, don’t blame me though!
6. Take a cooking lesson;
Yep! We know the way that ‘the way to a man’s heart is through sex his stomach’, so quit guessing how to make that dish and actually LEARN it. Men like their women good in almost every aspect no matter how selfish that sounds, so put in a little effort. Learning how to cook has become pretty easy and accessible too, simply consult Google while you have your pan on fire and it’s a smooth ride. Knowing how to cook is also a great plus for a man you are dating or when meeting him for the first time because he is confident that food will never be a problem and then as a family, sharing the kitchen with your spouse and kids will allow for amiable family bonding.
7. Get a decent education;
I have left the very best for the last and am hoping whoever stumbles upon this article gets to read it up to this point. The importance of being educated can never be over emphasized, the world has evolved and even though having a degree isn't a yardstick for measuring how successful one will be, it is always an important part of a person’s life, not just for ladies now.
BY Imelda Egwim
PHOTO CREDIT- ALLSHEDID
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