But despite their striking resemblance, the twins are poles
apart in terms of character and way of life. They perceive their bodies
differently. While taiye, who is an extrovert, believes that her bust is an
asset and never fails to flaunt it, her sister, Kehinde, is an introvert and
thinks otherwise about her boobs.
Taiye, now a graduate and currently doing her youth service,
said that they were not so noticed by men until they grew up to
be mature girls in their neighbourhood. She said that the attention they got
especially from boys after they passed puberty surprised and intrigued her.
“While growing up, we were never given much attention. We
were just like regular girls in a crowd until we began to develop boobs after
our secondary school. When we fully developed as big-breasted girls, we were
first surprised by the attention we got especially from guys and I soon got
used to it. Sometimes, I used it to my advantage. In the university, I had male
friends who would help me with assignments just because they wanted to hang out
with me,” Taiye said.
She however said that it surprised her till date that her
sister, Kehinde, had not come to terms with the fact that their big bust is a
blessing from God and not a burden. She argued that God would not have made
them identical twins if He didn’t mean to bless them.
Her twin sister, Kehinde, regards their big busts as a
burden rather than a blessing. Apart from complaining of constant physical
pains in the back, Kehinde believes the
bust are the major reason why most boys make amorous advances towards them.
Kehinde believes because of her boobs, most men lust after
her instead of falling in love with her. She said, “I would have preferred if my breasts were smaller
but I would never go under the surgeon’s knife. One major reason why I don’t
like my big bust is that men tend to see me as a sex object. Most times, they
don’t want to find out anything about me other than having a feel of my boobs.”
Kehinde explained that over time, she has come to learn how
to differentiate between men who are really interested in her and those who
lust after her body.
Apart from this, she said getting her bra size and lingerie
is difficult for her.
“When men engage in conversation with me, they stare at my
boobs and some get carried away. But when I hold a conversation with a man and
he looks at my face all through, I know that he is someone who is really
interested in me,” she explained.
Eva Okon, a student of a private university, told us that she would gladly go under the surgeon’s knife to have her bust
enlarged. But Olawunmi Adegboyega, a
banker, said given the chance, she would gladly reduce hers.
Okon said, “I like my body especially my breasts. They make
me feel beautiful. I know that they are large but sometime in the future, I
would want them to be bigger. They are definitely a blessing to me; I like the
attention I get from men because of them.”
Adegboyega said, “I got attention from even people I did not
want to be associated with in the university.“Apart from men constantly disturbing me, the weight of the
breasts affects me physically. I feel
backache at times but my doctor often advises me to relax more. I also have bra
stripe marks that never seem to fade off.”
Interestingly, while ladies are really concerned about their
bust size, men are not indifferent. They said they loved busty ladies who they
called “real African women,” others said they are indifferent. Wale Olugbenro told us he is usually attracted
to women with big bust.
“I think busty women are the real African women. My wife is
quite busty and I really love that aspect of her. I love the fact that I have
something to play with when we are copulating,” Olugbenro said.
Festus Akanador, a computer engineer said that the bigger
the better. “I like them big. You would be amazed what fun one can have
with a big breast,” Akanador said.
Being busty has been a blessing to some Nigerian entertainers.
Leading the pack is Cossy Orjiakor, who shot to fame after she featured in fuji
musician, Abass Obesere’s Apple Juice video. Ever since then, the young lady
has been a popular figure due to her big bossom.
Another popular female entertainer that is greatly endowed
in the chest region is Foluke Daramola-Salako.
She once told a correspondent in an interview that while
growing up, she was not proud of her bust size.
Salako said, “At the initial stage I used to be ashamed of
myself. Then, I would wear clothes that would not make my bust noticeable. I
tried everything I could to hide them. Subsequently, I read a book that said
the best admirer you have is yourself and the way you carry yourself is how
people would take you. I had to psyche myself to love it. After I did so, I
noticed that I was getting advances from people I did not even expect.
“Being a deep thinker, I always looked at the advantage of
everything; I saw that it was something I could not change, so I had to make
the best out of it. I got it into my sub-conscious that it was a plus than a
minus. I have had reasons to talk to a lot of people that are busty and do not
appreciate themselves. They now see it as an asset than a liability.”
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